I found out just yesterday that my girlfriend has been cheating on me with my best friend. I'm extremely disappointed in her and I'm breaking up with her. How do I make sure the friendship between my best friend and I isn't ruined?
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The friendship IS damaged. If he was really your friend, he wouldn’t have done that to you. Don’t just let him blame the girl–it was a mutual act of betrayal.
1- If they’re your best friend, they won’t betray your trust in them, so dump that friend if he says he didn’t mean to cheat, friends never truly hurt you, they make mistakes, but should never make ones that jeopardize the trust or closeness that friendship should bring.
2-If your girlfriend cheated on you, she never loved you to begin with, Infidelity people always make excuses or say no reason why they cheated on someone.
3-Good you’re breaking up with her, then she can’t cheat again and again on you, truthfully no one should be cheated on ever!
4-Dump your best friend, none of my best friends ever cheated with my ex girlfriend’s when I was dating them, true friends will never ever ever ever betray you. EOS (End of Story, and Scenario)
Thank you for your time. Cheaters never win, winners never cheat, A lie will never shine, but honesty always will.
It doesn’t sound like you’re too upset over loosing her? I guess the real question is are you okay that they’ll be together now? Maybe he just used her to show you what kind of person you were with-but did he? What if it’s more than that? Are you okay with knowing your friend and your ex were actually meant to be together? I guess the glory in it is she’ll do the same to him if they do end up together. I think your friend should be worried about your friendship than you. The balls in your court so to speak. All you can do is talk to him and find out why he did it. Just be prepared, cuz if your friend doesn’t want her and just used her, she’s going to be holding on to you, telling you he talked her into it. Doesn’t make it right of course, and I suppose you’ll have to stand your ground. The friendship is up to you, there may not be anything worth saving, but if there is, then it just will be.
Your best friend scr@wed your girlfriend behind your back and you want to look the other way? Your best friend scr@wed you and you don’t feel anything? No wonder your girlfriend dumped you for your best friend for his has guts to scr@w you and her. Balls? Go find your balls before you ask us how can you make sure your friendship isn’t damaged. Or, go look for your tiny amount of brains if you have them.
Why would you still want to be friends with him if he did that to you?
I don’t understand why.
If I were you I wouldn’t be ‘breaking up with her’, I would have already broke up with her the second I found out.
If you best friend could do that to you, he’s not worth a second of your time. If he did that, he doesn’t care about being your friend, or trying to be your friend. There are no excuses.
Think how much it would probably hurt you to see them both together, or to think of what he did to you.
Don’t be a door mat.
Let me get this straight – is was NOT OK for HER, but it is OK for HIM??? How do you figure?
If this happened to ME, they BOTH would be in the hospital and I would not even consider EVER even TALKING to either one of them!!!
Well, don’t be surprised if your “friend” does this to you each and every time you get with a girl – cos if you let this go, it is a good as telling him it is OK for him to do again.
Im sorry to tell you but it sounds like the friendship is already ruined! They both took part in the action and you cant just get rid of the girl friend and not the best friend. It’s not like she is more or less guilty just b/c she is your girlfriend! Your friend betrayed you and that is not acceptable.
Are you serious? What he did was WORSE than what she did. The same thing happened to me when I was a very young man. I then did something to him that caused me to spend 12 years in a State Pen. It’s damaged already. But for your own sake, just move on and dont ever talk to either of them again. They have ruined their own kharma for years to come.
y would u even have to ask that it wuznt jus wud ur gurl did ur “bestfreind” did it to u also. there shouldnt be a relationship between u an ur “bestfriend” cuz he aint ur bestfriend if he did something like that to you, as far as im conserned ur bestfriend alreadi ruined the 2 best relationships you had. Wake up!!
did i help you decide = p
Bros before hos
He forgot the code, a real friend would NEVER steal your girlfriend
If I were you, I’d throw that ****** off a ******* balcony, through a glass ************* window, ******* up the way he talks.
After that, he’d develope a speech impedement and maybe learn a few things about unspoken promises
Go talk to her one on one. Tell her what you found out. Create an agreement or consensus between yourselves on what to do. Be sincere while talking and do not get mad at her it could only make things worse. Make sure that after the two of you talked, you will be friends not enemies.
Wow, you are really forgiving… But in my opinion you can find a better friend. Obviousley he doesnt care about you or he would never of done this. Just put him behind you and find someone better, someone that will treat you with the respect you deserve.
good luck!
if you don’t want your friendship to be damaged, just tell him.
i’m sure he is more worried you’ll be mad at him, and won’t want to be friends.
just tell him that you forgive, and want to continue being friends.
simple as that!
good luck
I would personally “screw that friendship”. There might have been hope if she was your EX but being your current girlfriend he made his choice and he picked her over your friendship. I definitly wouldnt go crawling back to him. If he has an apology I’d listen but other then that…he blew his chances
well if your best friend knew that you were dating this girl then i wouldnt want to be friends with him anyway so the choice is yours, if you still want to be friends with ask him for a chat and explain that your disapointed and see what he says.
Got news for ya bro, if he knew that the lady he was sexing up the night before was your gf, he ain’t your best friend. You need to wish them both a good life and part ways with them, life is too short for drama.
ii DON’T KNOW WHY YOU WOULDN’T BE PiSSED OFF AT YOUR BF BUT iF YOU WANT TO SAVE YOUR FRiENDSHiP YOU NEED TO TALK TO HiM & LET HiM KNOW THAT YOUR PUTTiNG YOUR FRiENDSHiP FiRST & THAT YOUR NOT GOiNG TO LET THiS iNCiDENT RUiN YOUR FRiENDSHiP!
after your friend did that to you.. you still don’t want your friendship to be damage??
woah nuh huh stop right there.. your friend doesn’t deserve your friendship anymore..he ruined it.
it’s not just your gf’s fault..both of them has something to do with it.
Your friendship is damaged, very damaged. Don’t guys have some sort of loyalty to their friends? I’d say if he’d do that to you the friendship is ruined.
You should Talk to him and ask him why he did it.. and if he has a good reason (there really shouldn’t be) than ok your friendship is fine. but if he says b/c we were bored than He ain’t a true friend. Just Talk to him
well i’d be pissed at the best friend to be honest but he should be the one worrying that ur friendship is not damaged.http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?…
answer mine plz.
He is NOT your best friend if he is such a peace of sh*t that he messes with your girl. Move one, I’m sure you can find plenty of other REAL friends that are good people.
why save it..i would say this friend of yours is scum and what you two did have doesnt matter much to them.. im sorry but time to let you best friend go too.
Don’t worry about a friendship, worry about your dignity you sore loser..
Yeah that’s rigt you heard me, you’re just a wussy..
If I were you I’d ***** both of them son of a bi tches up..
Why would you want to be friends with someone your girlfriend had an affair with? Obviously he’s not your best friend if he cheated with your girlfriend. Who in their right mind would be friends with someone like that?
too late. it already is. forget them both. don’t be with people who don’t want to be with you. whether that’s a friend or a gf. if you forgive and try to stay friends you’re a woos.
I had a similar situation. My ex-girl friend tried to seduce my best friend. But my best friend was loyal to me.
The friendship in your case is over.
The guy is not your friend and you’d better figure that out pretty quick, before he takes your wallet, card and anything else that you have. Get rid of him.
by not caring much about the fact that ur gf cheated on you. And just moving on, making her look like a slut and giving ur friend a free lay.
Also talk to your friend and see if he’s okk.
It’s already damaged. He violated your trust.
If he was such a good friend cheating never would have taken place. Time you evaluate your friendship with this person and wonder why you still worry about it.
It took two people to cheat on you!